Life has a way of spinning us in circles. Not because we’re lost, but because we’re being shown the same lesson from every angle until we finally decide to exit differently.
For years, I thought the repetition meant failure. I thought the delays meant denial. I thought the detours meant I had somehow stepped outside of God’s plan. But now I understand: circles aren’t punishment — they’re preparation. They’re the universe’s way of saying, “You missed something the first time. Slow down. Look again.”
And if you’re not careful, you’ll get dizzy.
Dizzy from overthinking.
Dizzy from trying to fix what was never yours to repair.
Dizzy from carrying people who were only meant to walk with you for one mile, not ten.
Dizzy from trying to prove your worth to people who benefit from pretending they can’t see it.
But here’s the truth: you don’t have to stay on the same loop.
There is always an exit — and it’s usually the one you were scared to take.
The Circle Isn’t the Problem — Your Attachment Is
Sometimes we stay in cycles because they’re familiar. Familiar pain. Familiar chaos. Familiar roles. Familiar expectations. Even familiar disrespect.
But familiarity is not the same as alignment.
You can’t build legacy in a loop.
You can’t elevate while orbiting the same old patterns.
You can’t become who you’re called to be while clinging to who you used to be.
At some point, you have to say:
“This circle has served its purpose. I’m taking the next exit.”
Exiting Requires Courage
Exits are uncomfortable because they lead to roads we’ve never traveled.
They require decisions we’ve avoided.
They demand boundaries we’ve never enforced.
They expose truths we’ve tried to ignore.
But exits also bring clarity.
They bring peace.
They bring alignment.
They bring restoration.
They bring the version of you that the circle was preparing you for.
The Exit Is Where Your Power Returns
When you finally take the exit, you stop reacting and start directing.
You stop spinning and start moving.
You stop surviving and start building.
You reclaim your voice.
You reclaim your vision.
You reclaim your authority over your own story.
And the beautiful part is this:
The moment you exit, the dizziness stops.
Your mind clears.
Your spirit steadies.
Your purpose sharpens.
Because you were never meant to stay in the circle — you were meant to learn from it.
Full Circle Doesn’t Mean Back to the Beginning
People think “full circle” means returning to where you started.
But the truth is, when you come full circle, you return with wisdom, clarity, and discernment you didn’t have before.
You’re not the same person who entered the circle.
You’re stronger.
You’re wiser.
You’re more intentional.
You’re more aligned.
Full circle means you can finally see the exit for what it is:
A release. A redirection. A rebirth.
Don’t Get Dizzy — Take the Next Exit
If life has you spinning, pause.
Breathe.
Look around.
Ask yourself:
“What is this circle trying to teach me, and what exit have I been avoiding?”
Then take it.
Boldly.
Unapologetically.
With your head high and your spirit steady.
Because your next chapter isn’t inside the circle —
it’s waiting at the exit